Sugar: friend or enemy?

Greetings,

Let me ask you one question.

Do you have any special experience with sugar? whatever the sugar.

sugar demon

There could be many answers to that question:

  1. Ahhh, those cream cheeses, pops, chocolate cream cakes, pancakes,…the old beautiful time. My doctor told me the sad news: now I am diabetic. Not a day without my insulin seringues… I hate it!!
  2. Yeah, amigo. At breakfast with my expresso. 2 pieces, all the time.
  3. Sugar? Are you kidding?I love it sooo much! I always have a chocolate bar very closed to me, in my bag, the fridge, even in my bedroom. Every time I get nervous, I chew a bite of it.
  4. I use a diet sugar called nutrasweet. YES!, 0 calorie. 15 pounds to lose before the wedding…and I will look great in my giorgio armani dress…yahhiiiii….
  5. Babe, you are my sugaaaar,…my honeeeey.
  6. 6CO2 + 6H2O  ——- C6H12O6 (glucose) + ATP Energy. So we have sugar. Something else to say?
  7. Which sugar should I begin with? glucose, fructose, sucrose, lactose,…which one?
  8. Hey, Georgy! Beware the fat, sick and stupid Syndrome! no more pastries! Brush you teeth and go to bed! Right now!
  9. …..
  10. ….

These are some of the sugar experiences of our day to day lives, or sugar addiction experiences simply said. Any one else?

Few years ago, I bought a new kind of paste, out of curiosity. Amazed I was few seconds after brushing my teeth.

Something wasn’t…right! Not at all. POUAHHH!

And you know what? No way to come back to the last taste. The last tube had come to its end.

I think you have guessed: no taste, no sugar. Do the same! Buy a sugar-free toothpaste for you and your children.

Slavery to sugar is the name of the game.

This experience, you have to live it in one form or another! If not, then you may be at the mercy of the sugar demons. We don’t have to get rid of them, NO, NO! just being cautious.

The next time you brush you teeth, using a “toothpaste”, make sure your tongue doesn’t get pasted with sugar…USE A SUGAR-FREE TOOTHPASTE.

Aloe vera, citrus, mint are some of the alternative aroma you may choose…without sugar, without addiction! Not enough? then teach your children about this.

Fabrice Siemeni, on behalf of HappinessPotential

BACK TO SCHOOL BEING HEALTHY, SMART, AND CONFIDENT

Now, the back to school period is coming, parents prepare, organize themselves before the famous “first day in class” of their children (or even themselves). What has been experienced few weeks ago as playing all sorts of games, meeting relatives, making new friends, traveling, visiting camps, working on a summer job, has brought some joy, new knowledge and life experiences and maybe some pain. It might have been a time whereby the energy resources have been replenished. Now, as the first day approaches, this feeling of getting prepared preoccupies the parents who may think: “what a wonderful time the child had (or is having). It will be soon over.” We want to be materially prepared, meaning having some new clothes, shoes, backpack, crayons, books, a new schedule plan sticked on the fridge’s door; well, this may motivate the kids, but is it enough to create a strong inner foundation in the child? to make him/ her feel secure, healthier, even smarter?

Back in the days I went to elementary school in Douala (Cameroon) in the 80’s, the first day, every school year start was like magical; having on a new pair of shoes (not always), new books, a snack for the break before noon which was generally a piece of white bread also called baguette with jam, or butter, sometimes ham. yeahhh! however, the shoes didn’t looked new all the time, but the snack. As the bell rang, I started to salivate and I enjoyed my snack prepared by mom. My father was the one who everyday brought me to school in the morning and took me back home at noon. At home, we had lunch, the complete family being around the table, and we all took a nap afterwards and then came back to school well nourished and refreshed. Having a complete, tasty meal included fruits and vegetables. My classmates had quite the same experience.

Well, as I see it now, it was quite idealistic but normal back then, having a complete lunch, with the whole family and then a nap. Now in Canada and many other places, it is another story. In general, the children eat and snack from their lunch bags…at school. They consume a junk food from a supermarket or a meal which has been prepared at home. In other cases, some schools make an agreement with a food company which serves a specific menu taking into consideration the dietary habits of the child. Vegetarian or non- vegetarian for instance or excluding possible allergenic ingredients. In this particular case, the parent pay for it. Is it a secret now that there is an increasing population of children or scholars that have an issue related to food? No, I don’t think so.

I am now to name some dysfunctions which rarely happened few decades ago, whether in Cameroon or Canada: obesity, sweet or chocolate cravings, overeating/undereating, allergies, constipation, lack of concentration, colds, tooth decay, gas, skin eruption, diarrhea, hyperactivity, arthritis, diabetes, high blood pressure…just to name a few. Those things happen and we might think we are not in control of.

1- Wait a minute! where do all these conditions come from? How does a very young child, aged 4, 5, even 17 years old visits a dentist/dermatologist/surgeon/gastroenterologist/ immunologist/ORL specialist/clinic’s doctor not once but several times within the same year? Why does the health of the population (not only of african descent), especially children’s does not improve, but deteriorate?

You might see a teen and give him the age of 16 or 17. but in reality, he is just 13. Many are getting OLD too fast, they are degenerating!! Also, you might see a woman/man, give her/him the age of 50, but she/he is 40.

I am talking about building a strong inner foundation and most of the dysfunctions appearing now are pretty the results of not enough discipline habits of healthy nourishment,…From the time you were born, do you realize how much of the so called “new foods” were created and consumed? Do you realize the resulting dysfunctions as named above?

You might notice that the deterioration that is visible on the outside has previously started from the inside. And what do we generally do? We are used to run to a doctor to fix the outside.

We are all made up of nutrients, that is our foundation, as we learnt in elementary school: do you remember learning in elementary school that beriberi results from lack of B vitamin (especially B1)? soft teeth/bones (rickets/osteoporosis) results from lack of calcium/vitamin D? Also, a less severe deficiency of vitamin C results in tissue weakness (bleeding and receding gums), because vitamin C is necessary to build the major component of connective tissue; appropriate protein breakdown provide structure of the hair, nails, skin,…

It is important for parents to instill good eating habits in their children and to avoid over- indulgence in refined sugars, refined flours and high-fat, fried fast foods. Children need a lot of nourishing foods to provide them with all of the important nutrients for growth. Setting a good example is my number one tip for parents for the purpose of feeding their children healthfully. That being said, is it an easy job?

The most damaging criminals in the modern diet are: White sugar, bleached white flour, fried foods, meat/fish.

White sugar (highly present in commercial candies, pastries, sirups, pops, cakes, pancakes, muffins, donuts, sugary cereals, ice cream, refined carbohydrate snacks,…) is an addicting synthetic chemical, has no fiber, no nutrients, increases the sugar level in the body beyond its natural level, which causes learning problems, hyperactivity, attention deficit, mood swings, behavior problems, nutrient deprivation, diabetes, high blood pressure, nerve and brain damage, kidneys failure, cataracts, poor circulation, chronic fatigue, tooth decay, arthritis. Sweets also cause a craving for salt and salt in return causes a craving for sweets. Watch out the menus at Burping King, Mc dudu or Killed and Fried Chicken; the menus are mainly sweet and salty. So, when you eat the fries and chicken which are damned salty, after a while, you need to compensate with some sweet stuff, naturally pop drinks which they offer sometimes free of charge. By the way, there is no such things as free there! You pay afterwards by ending up toxic and nutrient deficient. On top of that, they make sure you crave their foods, so they use addictive substances such as Monosodium Glutamate which is a salt also sugar, and then you will come back again. WHY? to satisfy the addiction they created in you. Ask yourself the question: how does it happen that a child, when seeing a brand of a junk food industry, the mood suddenly changes, he or she has one thing in mind, doesn’t realize having uncontrollable cravings.

Bleached white flour (highly present in commercial bread, cakes, muffins, biscuits, waffles, pancakes, donuts,…) is constipating because it has no fiber, it is just a non- digestible roughage. Bleached white flour is robbed of over 22 (twenty-two) minerals and vitamins. You don’t want your child or yourself to be undernourished. Since deficiencies are widespread, we might well ask why this is so. Let us examine what happens when whole wheat grain is turned into white flour. The following data (work done by Henry A. Schroeder in the U.S. and by M.O. Bruker in Germany, both medical doctors) shows the percentages of some essential nutrients and fiber lost during processing:

Fiber (-95%) ,Essential Fatty Acids (-95%), Calcium (-60%), Manganese (-86%), Magnesium (-85%), Potassium (-77%), Iron (-76%), Chromium (-40%), Zinc (-78%), Vitamin E (-86%), B-vitamins (-72 to -81%).

Polished (white) rice has lost between 26 and 83 % of each mineral present in brown rice. Corn starch has lost between 31 and 100 % of each mineral present in whole corn. Sugar has lost between 83 and 100 % of each mineral present in raw sugar.

Fried foods are non-digestible, constipating and just partially used by the body. Fried foods cause the craving for sweets.

ACTIONS TO TAKE

You would never want to build a home on an unstable foundation.The same goes for a child growing up on a poor diet. Every body needs a nutrient rich nutrition; however the growing child suffers more because of nutrient deficiency or internal toxicity. Most conditions improve greatly once the right diet and lifestyle are put into place.

Nonetheless, there are simple actions to be taken every day to insure strong and permanent health of the child, which is the backbone of every success at school or at work:

A – Develop a plan, a strategy for optimum nutrition and health.

- When you don’t plan, you‘ve already failed, said someone. Sickness doesn’t just show up! It is the result of everyday’s habits, ways of thinking, eating, drinking and living. It includes a well written and also applied knowledge of what foods or nutrients you buy, in which form, how your body responds or how well you assimilate…

- Make a plan, know more about the health or dysfunction a habit brings to you. You surely know about financial planning and that nobody can have long term financial success without financial planning. It is the same approach with your first house, meaning your body which connects to your mind and spirit.

B – Upon awaking: drink at least one (or two) glass(es) of water. This is the most neglected health habits of all. It should NOT be. Eliminating clears the digestive system

of toxins and the mucus that has been built during the night. Any food that spoils, ferments, forms gas also causes a disturbance in the bowel and also affects the rest of the body. Above all things, it is necessary to have proper bowel movements in order to have a healthy body. Make this a ritual. Even if you don’t feel it, it is very crucial to program the system to eliminate at certain periods of the day.

C – Simple morning meal solutions:

- Pieces of fruits or one glass of a home made vegetable and fruit juice (carrots, pineapple, oranges, beets, parsley,…). Use your imagination.

- Eating a warm, whole grain cereal (oatmeal with flaxmeal or flaxseeds for instance) provides a good source of morning energy. Be careful, the sugary cereals may be tastier and more stimulating, but the boost is short-lived and is more often followed by a depressed period). Add some nuts or seeds to their grains offers better long-term energy and nutrients.

- Fruit milk or seed milk with some non-processed cereals (do you remember the effects of white sugar and the nutrient loss after processing as seen above? avoid processed cereals). Cow’s milk is a major allergen, while being not digestible. Black people (at least 70 %) don’t have the milk lactase, the enzyme necessary to digest the cow’s milk lactose. However, you are on a more secure side by alternating with fruit/seed/nut milk beverages such as banana milk/almond’s milk which do not tax your digestive and defense system, avoiding regular colds, fatigue, etc…

- Aside from the information above, I have listed a bunch of commercially harmful ingredients as well as their healthier counterpart. You may introduce them in your diet.

To reduce/eliminate – To incorporate

White Flour - Whole Wheat Flour

Candy - Pieces of Fruit/Vegetable

White Sugar - Less dangerous is honey. Stevia is safest.

Sugarcoated cereals - Plain Cereals

Packaged Foods - Home Made Foods

Packaged/Carbonated Drinks - Fruit juice mixed with water

Bread with preservatives - Bread without preservatives

Commercial peanut butter - Home made peanut butter

Commercial chocolate mix - Raw cacao powder

Butter, Margarine - Sesame butter, almond butter

Cowʼs milk - Fruit, nut or seed milk (Banana, almond milk)

2 cups of banana milk (recipe)

This is a nutrient-rich beverage, can be made in a blender (blend until smooth) with 1/4 cup of raw almonds, 2 to 4 bananas, 2 cups of warm water, 1 pinch of sea salt and vanilla. You can add some non-processed sugar like stevia, pure honey. Refrigerate. Simply DELICIOUS NUTRITIOUS!!

D – Create simple but nutrient rich lunches/meals

- Main meals should NOT take more than 3 or 4 hours to be digested. A digestive system that receives food 4 to 5 times a day should have completely digested the previous meal. When animal protein (fish, chicken, beef, pork,…) and carbohydrate (white rice,…) or starch are eaten at the same time, none of them is properly digested. This food combination requires lots of digestive juices, spends too much time in the stomach, and putrefy there. By the time one has a snack, the stomach is not yet empty and the putrefaction gets worse. That leads to nutrient deficiencies and internal toxicity. Consider the major and important food groups such as vegetables (leafy greens like parsley, cabbage, kale, spinach; vegetable flowers like broccoli,…), fruits, beans (like lentils, peas, kidney beans), whole grains (like quinoa, brown rice, barley,…), raw seeds (like sesame seeds, pumpkin seed,…), roots and tubers (like yams, cassava,…), raw nuts if allowed in school (coconuts, walnuts, almonds,…).

- Consider warm foods during the cold season, like potages.

E – Develop healthy habits

- There are always outside influences at this age such as other children or tell-lie-vision (television) with food commercials that attempt to undermine the healthy habits you have worked hardly over the years to develop in your children. Again, it comes back primarily to the parents when it comes to setting a good example pertaining the health patterns of their young ones.

- be creative with veggies; most children prefer raw vegetables to cooked ones; so try more raw veggies. Offer whatever vegetables the child likes and also maintain the fruits, grains, and protein foods. And with this, you will be healthier too, as you appear as a good nutritional example.

- avoid rewards of such sweets as ice cream, cake, or candy for eating their vegetables. Bribery and rewards may emphasize the treats and lessen the value of the more healthy foods.

- get children involved in meal planning and preparation as they get older may also help. Having them assist in preparing their school lunch will give them more pleasure in eating it.

F – Invest in a nutrient rich diet

- It is wise to buy and consume vitamins and minerals that are made from plants (herbs and whole foods). Vitamins energize the body while minerals stabilize it. . Do not buy synthetic vitamins and minerals. Processed synthetic vitamins are just dead, something that is dead can not give life. They drain the body of nutrients, alter the pH and the chemistry of the body and have a negative effect on health as well as on the defense mechanism, maintaining you in a defense attitude like taking a tylenol/aspirin which are drugs taxing the system, especially the liver.

- The quality and availability of the nutrient makes all the difference. Swallowing calcium pills doesn’t mean much. Which form of calcium and how much is absorbed are the most critical factors. For instance, between Calcium oxide and Calcium aspartate, the absorption rate reaches up to 30% for the first and 80 % for the second.

- Your diet and nutritional supplementation should contain the most obvious nutrients that the average individual lacks such as: Iron, Calcium, Magnesium, Zinc, vitamin C, Chromium, Vitamins A, C, E, B-vitamins including folic acid, Essential Fatty Acids (omega 3), fiber. Let’s consider iron. Iron deficiency is common in childhood and adolescence; when the circulating iron is low, then fatigue, learning difficulties, emotional symptoms may occur. You don’t want your child (you too) to be nutrient deficient. You can get all these from a whole food diet, herbs, or natural nutrients on a daily basis.

The issue of health comes down to individual responsibility. In this context, responsibility means choosing a healthier alternative over a less healthy one. If you want to be healthy, nobody can make healthy choices but you.

May this period of learning and evolving, whereby you invest a lot of money, time, energy be sustained by a smart mind in a strong healthy body, and rewarded by outstanding results.

There is a saying of Egyptian origin that resonates with me: “Each child comes with the message that God is not yet discouraged of man”. That being said, the children, as future of the society should be taught not just to pursue a degree or certification but in order to help them define their reason or purpose for being on Earth.

Fabrice Siemeni, on behalf of HappinessPotential.

Always on “weight loss”? the number one trick behind it!

The Number one trick behind the so called “weight loss” is what??

What/how we think, do on a daily basis influences us more than we may think.

One practical example of this concerns the use of the  ‘weight loss’ term. Most people are accustomed to use this term it for themselves or relatives, regarding “losing weight”. This is an oximoron. Let me tell you why.

Everyone living on planet Earth is supposed to have weight. That is the LAW OF GRAVITY and everyone’s birthright.

Whenever someone tells you “Hey! you are gorgeous! It is fantastic! what happened?” “you’ve lost 30 pounds?”

And you may be really happy yourself, having lost the 30 pounds.

Then your mind goes to work and tries to gain the “weight” back that you said you have lost. What often happens is: “OH! I’ve lost 30 pounds and gained 40!”

Nobody can lose weight, because we are all supposed to have weight. Don’t think of “losing weight”, because you will gain it back. Your mind will create ways to gain it back, by propelling you to binge or drink (chocolate bars, chips, liquor, just to name a few).

You can only release unnecessary, unhealthy, unnatural “weight”, because that type of weight is really waste. It is about “releasing waste”. Yes! It starts in the mind.

Rather think like this: “I would like to release 5 pounds of waste or unnatural weight”

Your subconscious mind can not allow you to lose something natural as your weight. It will gain it back or make it difficult to achieve.

That is the foremost approach concerning releasing the waste.

Now we come to the second and relevant one: it happens by allowing the body to detoxify properly through the five channels of elimination (intestines, kidneys, lymph, skin, lungs). They have to work well on a permanent basis.

Just by changing your mind and optimizing your release, for sure, you will never get trapped by the yoyo diet.

Bye bye “lose weight”, welcome “release waste”.

Thank you for reading…

 

Fabrice on behalf of HappinessPotential

 

 

The peanuts

Greetings,

Peanut, yes, the most popular nut you may think. But peanut is actually more a “pea” than a “nut”. It is a legume, like the pea, bean or lentil. In many nations, peanuts are eaten as a snack but also as a food for its nutritional value. Let us know more about it as it can influence our lives for the best or the worst.

Safety

Peanuts are a highly allergenic food and the rate of severe peanut allergy is increasing and as a result, peanuts are no longer provided as a snack on airplane flights, also forbidden in schools.

It is especially important to purchase good-quality nuts. Of particular concern is the fungus Aspergillus fungus, which produces a poison called aflatoxin which ingestion has been linked to mental retardation and lower intelligence. So, to ensure your own safety, when purchasing nuts,

  • Do so from a grocery where the nuts have been stored in a dry, cool environment. WHY? The fungus grows when the temperature is 30 to 36 ℃ and the humidity is high. (so, much attention in summer time or warm countries)
  • For storage, use an airtight container and keep your peanuts in a dry, cool place (refrigerator or freezer).
  • Use mostly raw or lightly roasted fresh nuts (on your own) in general rather than commercially roasted and salted nuts and seeds.
  • However, it is best to purchase nuts still in the shell, or raw. The shell is a natural protector against carcinogenic damage caused by light and air. Also, crushed nuts, nut pieces that you may find for sale are most often rancid.
  • A much better choice is to purchase peanut butter that uses only peanut. Even better is to grind it yourself, as it is done back home.

Hydrogenation, the addition of hydrogen molecules, changes the structure of the natural fatty acid to many “unnatural” fatty acids forms. The resulting hydrogenated oil becomes solid or semisolid. To avoid that, simply pay attention to the label. Pay attention to “hydrogenated oils” like “hydrogenated cottonseed oil” for instance, or “partially hydrogenated coconut oil”.

Only non-hydrogenated peanut oil should be consumed. The most popular commercial roasting process of nuts is a form of deep-frying. Deep-fried foods are linked to high levels of bad cholesterol and to the thickening of artery walls. Although most major peanut butter manufacturers use hydrogenated stabilizing oils to keep the oil and protein from separating, these products are hazardous to the cardiovascular system (meaning the heart, the blood vessels) and relates to high cholesterol, atherosclerosis, high blood pressure, stroke, angina pectoris, heart attack.

Energy source

Peanuts are composed of half fat, a quarter protein and the rest carbohydrate. Many people are afraid of fat when nut is mentioned, thinking about their waistline, believing that nuts are high in calories, studies have shown that people who frequently consume nuts actually have less of a problem with OBESITY than those who do not eat nuts.

Let me tell you that fat is the preferred energy source of our body, indeed my preferred source. It is not just what we put in the mouth that matters, but more importantly what happens afterwards for the benefit of our health. Talking about fat, most people think about the fat in their buttocks, their belly, on hips, on thighs, under their skin tissues as cellulite. It means the excessive fat surplus doesn’t have the ability to be further synthesized for the benefit of softer organs and tissues.

I relate to the following example: it is like applying a conditioner on leather shoes for purposes of cleaning and shining. Removing the superficial dirt is the first step. Then applying the conditioner. The process of rubbing enhances the shining effects with the exposition to air and sunlight. However, avoiding the rubbing process won’t conduct to shiny shoes…as absence of further processing of fat in the body after consumption will reduce its potential efficiency.

You may think that exercise is the solution, but why most people just exercise in their dreams or thoughts, but almost never in the reality? Lack of time? Nothing can be further from the truth.

Exercising regularly means having a certain motivation. Motivation itself is an energy, mental to be precise. And what nourishes our mental?

When the energy stays almost blocked at the physical level, the mental does not get as much for the purpose of motivation and mental functioning.

Our body has inner supra intelligence that should be used for ultimate functioning. The more we learn how to master the fat metabolism rather than exalting fear, the better we will have more energy for brain performance and much more…

Brain and Intelligence

Did you know that the brain is made up of 60 % fat? Indeed the low quality fat is a liability exposing us to diseases. However, the high quality fat is an asset; it attracts more oxygen to nourish the brain and form a barrier against toxins and bacteria.

How efficiently do you use and synthesize your fat?

Remember, oil/fat is one of the most important aspect to look at regarding intelligence and brain function.

Thanks for reading!!!!!!

By Fabrice Siemeni from HappinessPotential.

Does halloween cause diabetes?

Greetings,

YYYYYÉÉÉÉÉÉÉÉÉÉÉÉÉÉ Halloween!! Halloween!! Halloween!! Halloween!!

Wait a minute!! Wait a minute!! What does it do?

Are we more spiritually inclined after this All Saints’ Day? or are we fond to have some sweetness in the mouth within the next weeks and months? On the other side, if it is not a candy and costume business, what is that then?

Dressed up as witches or ghosts and going from door to door asking for sweets? Do angels need such amount of sweet?

What about exchanging great natural stuff instead of candies? Do candies do harm? Yes, they do harm! A candy is ALWAYS a step further to the doctor’s office!!!! If not this year, then in the years to come in some form of dysfunction.

An appointment with the dentist, the dermatologist, the generalist doctor, the pediatrist, and later on with the neurologist, the psychologist,…

Every time I come across a dental office, there is always at least a child in there. And those children have to learn the hard way. WHY? Children and parents think its about fun, I mean taking and giving sweets of all kind, as in the building I live in, parents are encourage to sponsor some candies. IT IS NO FUN!!

At the end of the day, somebody has to pay for it. Here is one part of the bill:

  • Over 3 million Canadians have some form of diabetes (9 % of the canadian population)
  • Over 300,000 canadian children and adults live with type 1 diabetes
  • The number of people living with type 1 diabetes IS INCREASING by 3 to 5 % annually and the greatest rise is in children aged 5 to 9 years of age. (Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation; World Health Organization: Diamond Project Group February 2006)

So, if the number of children and adults victims of diabetes increases by 3 to 5 % each year (much more than the canadian growth rate) and at the same time they continue the halloween stuff, you can make the math yourself. EXPECTED RESULT: the probability of any child to build diabetes is increased, by having some candies to chew up during the year.

And you know what? living with type 1 diabetes requires approximatively 1,460 needles a year (based on 4 injections per day) and 2,190 finger pokes a year to test blood sugar levels.

Let us ask ourselves some questions:

  • where does Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) come from?
  • where does Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) come from?
  • where does learning difficulties and lack of concentration come from?
  • where does diabetes come from?

To think about…

Thanks for reading!!!

 

Fabrice Siemeni

Baby, cow’s snot and anemia

Greetings,

I have been posted already on milk and human nutrition and I am glad to share this with you:

“according to the American Academy of Pediatry (AAP), any children under one year old should not drink cow’s milk, because milk can cause anemia by interfering with iron absorption and possibly causing internal bleeding.”

It is really important to ask ourselves some questions like these:

Why continuing drinking cow’s milk after 1 year of age then? 

Where does come the mucus accumulated in the lymph and other important organs of children and adults drinking cow’s milk (or cow’s snot)?

Has a cow’s milk something to do in a human’s body, considered a superior being?

3 % of babies have some degree of iron deficiency anemia.

 

Something to think about…

Thanks for reading!!!

Fabrice Siemeni

What is the purpose of my life?

“What is the purpose of my life?”

“Why am I here? I mean, on this planet?”

Greetings,

These are probably the most important questions any human being will be confronted to answer. What to say about it? We have done so much things, projects, accomplishments, until now; and what about now and the future? Is that enough? How do we feel about it?

Remember that there is no security in the so-called “security” related to the availability of material resources. There is one piece that is almost forgotten: a certain piece of the economy. Let us define it first.

Definition of economy (Encarta World English Dictionary)

  1. the prudent managing of resources to avoid extravagant expanditure or waste.
  2. a sparing, controlled, or efficient use of something.

In the media, resources relate more to exploiting oil, forests, wild animals, precious minerals, owning a cultivable territory,…just to name a few. The “exploitation” or economy of those resources had been the norm for centuries now as they become less available, and their scarcity is the cause of a bunch number of wars, catastrophes, pollutions around the globe, individually and collectively.

What about the economy of Self? I mean all the resources inside of us, unrevealed, waiting just for the opportunities to be expressed.

Do you know that the majority of heart attacks happens on monday morning between 8 am and 9 am, and that it pertains to the fact that most don’t like their work? Nutrient deficiencies, pain, depression,… may just be contributing factors.

Sometimes, we get the idea that work (job) is something “painful”, something to avoid as much as possible. It can also be a source of joy. Work is a form of self-expression and our work in the world is first a gift to ourselves and then to the world. No doubt it is our contribution for a better world.

Think about waking up in the morning. It is the proof there is still something to experience here down to earth.

We owe it to ourselves to find out what we like to do, then develop the skill set, and work at it until proficiency, passion and enjoyment are the results. The more we like what we do, the more this energy spills over into the world with positive impact.

It can be challenging to come up with a straight right answer of the question of purpose. However, a self assessment is mandatory, because you assess yourself and you find the answers you are looking for; all that happens along the process.

Think about the questions below; ask yourself the questions; and more importantly, get a clear picture of your thoughts:

  1. What is (or might be) a secret passion in my life? Something I may or may not have allowed myself to do so far, but I would really love to do?
  2. What’s missing in my life, the presence of which would make my life be more fulfilling?

Is it taking care of children? traveling? thinking? organizing events? singing? dancing? cooking? running a specific business? counseling? teaching? researching? managing an organization?

Think really about that one, you may have thought about back then as a child, teenager. Or you might do it part time, in your leisure time…

Relax, take your time, breathe deeply, take some notes…

If you are really happy with what you do right now, it is fabulous. If not enough, making those steps may help you. Don’t think yet about the final outcome, the paycheck, the abilities or experience required. Don’t think yet about the how it will be possible! The goal now is having a picture of you, enjoying your work.

Doing this is a good start and you may be sure you are on the right track when really feeling good after few days experiencing you, being really fulfilled.

May your purpose be clear…it is an important piece of your happiness project.

Many thanks for reading!!

Fabrice Siemeni

 

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